What is your love language?
AbsolutelyMissU
Dallas, Texas | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what a good black man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads he might not wear a suit or drive a Lexus. He might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back than someone who turns your head.
A good Black Man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yada yada he is (he won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.
A good Black Man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, aha! I knew you were a dog!
A good Black Man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentines's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It's just not true. Pass this along to all the "Good Black Men" you know and to the women who would appreciate it.
A good Black Man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yada yada he is (he won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.
A good Black Man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, aha! I knew you were a dog!
A good Black Man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentines's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It's just not true. Pass this along to all the "Good Black Men" you know and to the women who would appreciate it.
Sign
Scorpio
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
6' 1 (1.85 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Hands
My Hair Is
Bald
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is
Manager
I Make This Much In A Year
$75,000USD To $99,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Family, Exercising, Reading, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Theater, Travel, Cooking
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
You will just have to see! But it will be enjoyable.
I've Always Wanted To Try
I'll never tell. LOL
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Not Sure
My Goal In Life Is
Is to be the best I can be each day and strive to be better than the prior day.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, I Wish I Had A Tv, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Jazz, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read
Auto-biography, Biography, Business, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Music, Philosophy, Sports
My Idea Of Fun Is
My idea of fun is doing whatever makes me and my significant other happy and puts a smile on HER face.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
Just be who you are!
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Committed, Marriage