ForTheBalanceOfOurLives

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

It doesn't mater what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me to know how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me in what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals of have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, yours and mine, without moving to hide it, fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day, and if you can source you life from the God's presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the moon, "Yes"! It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children or us. It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments. As much as I would like to take credit for the above, they are not my words. Just my feelings! Namaste!!

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

Muscular

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Manufacturing / Distribution

My Job Title Is

Managing Member

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Teachers Pet

My Social Behavior Is

Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Cars, Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Family, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Sports, Theater, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Staying At Home

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Coffee
Lunch
Walk

I've Always Wanted To Try

Anything

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool

My Religion Is

Other

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To reach back and help others.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Country, Gospel, Jazz, Reggae, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Business

My Idea Of Fun Is

Whatever happens!

What Do You Find Attractive?

Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

An all true woman!

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed