Poz, undetectable,healthy, masc. bottom

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Younger looking 58 year old gay guy, MASCULINE BOTTOM. HIV+, UNDETECTABLE, HEALTHY, EMPLOYED Nurse and most of all HAPPY. Important things you need to know, but there's more to me then that. I'm a little shy but not a total introvert and can express my opinions gently. Learning my way around the gym-don't have a gym body, but not overweight-currently achieving one hour on the stationary bike and stretching out my back afterwards(recently lost 40 pounds). Love to walk. Really want to tone it up. I consider myself a hard working average Joe,easy going, lay back and quiet kind of guy-- but I'm also passionate. My favorite colors are yellow, purple, red, brown and gray. I love the sounds of the beach and the wind and the smell of lavender. I have a soft spot in my heart for people are waiters-waitresses, nurses, first responders, military people, law enforcement and teachers(such challenging jobs). Speaking of jobs, I am a nurse in a busy,fast paced,chameleon Cardiac Cath Lab-meaning that I'm part of a team that is present to keep a patient safe and comfortable while the doctor is placing a stent inside a patient's blocked heart artery(s). I'm out(not in your face) and proud at my job. I'm a masculine Bottom. Love, love hand holding,romance and being romanced, being into you and being into us. I'm a great kisser,affectionate,into monagamy big time,not afraid of intimacy and very loyal. I'm a very light social drinker. Interests include:Great singers(Streisand, Sarah Vaughn, Karen Carpenter,Jessay Norman, Joan Sutherland, Luther Vandross, Ella-just to name a few). Architecture(Frank Lloyd Wright, Richard Nuetra, mid-century, craftsman styles and grand old cathedrals-especially in Europe). Love classical organ music, music in general, opera, theater(love Hamilton, Wicked and Phantom of the Opera)., T.V.(favorites are the original Law and Order, Big Bang Theory, classic T.V.). Films(current, classics and foreign.,TCM fan). You are a man(race open-I'm an equal opportunity type of man lover) who can accept the issue of me being a healthy HIV undetectable(or who is in the same situation as I am) as indicated per my profile title. You must be a TOP(I'm a masculine bottom) and a great kisser(essential) with some or all of the same interest,qualities and have a great outlook on life. I am looking for a man who has the ego to embrace monogamy, romantic and old-fashioned. A man who is not afraid to be affectionate. Someone who believes in open and honest communication and can do so in an constructive way without being rude. Someone who is also not afraid to cry and not afraid of intimacy. My basic philosophy on relationships is that everyone is broken inside and not perfect. We work around or with those imperfections or do some homework and change if those imperfections are impactful. Communication is key rather it's positive or constructive criticism. Emotionally, I will show up and step up to the plate. When I'm wrong(remember, we are not perfect), it's easy for me to say "I'm wrong" and "I'm sorry". Born in New Orleans. Grew up in L.A.(father and sister live in L.A. and I visit there frequently). Willing to date someone who lives in L.A. or Palm Springs. San Diego resident since 1992. Thanks for reading my profile. My photos are recent(yours should be too-don't mind seeing how you look now) and labeled with dates. Pictures without sunglasses look better. Take care and be well! NO DRUGS!!

Sign

Libra

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

Registered Nurse

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Dining, Exercising, Music, Tv, Movies, Theater, Cars

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A relaxing quiet cafe or restaurant where we can hear each other and allow us to be ourselves and or be nervous. Maybe we can walk around the area afterwards.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Maintain health and happiness.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Health, Instructional, Reference

My Idea Of Fun Is

See basic information

What Do You Find Attractive?

Sensitivity, Empathy, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Intimate, Committed, Marriage