Daring to Trust & Love

First name

Lynnesha

I Would Describe Myself As

"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage". I am looking for honesty, authenticity, and an understanding of what your goals are in life. I want you to want to know about about makes me loyal, loving, and faithful. Reciprocity and full disclosure, even when a courageous conversation may be had, is a requirement. Are you confident but not a doormat or too big of an asshole?? Do you have other black friends or friends who want you happy? Are you looking for a stereotypical 'black girl' experience to say, 'I've checked that box.' I like country but not some of the old, and definitely not some of the new. I know a man who describes his wife as the 'most white/black girl' he knows. I'm not that. I like 90s trap, soulful, lyrical, meaningful/or not music. I am learning to appreciate the outdoors (still no deer stands). I hope this post demonstrates my graduate degrees and my age is a testament to my independence. Lol, however, will not raise or support a grown-up. My build-a-bear days are over. I'm ready to form a relationship that comes naturally and is neither rushed nor drawn out. I have one son who graduates this December. I do welcome men with children, of course, but have a responsible relationship. No left over feelings for the mother or issues with the mother moving on, regular visitation (or plan), and be effective co-parents. Nothing is always easy but I will absolutely not entertain a man uninvolved in their child(rens) life, unless there is actual paperwork that attempts are being actively made. I am looking for my last first kiss. I look forward to speaking to you ;)

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Visible Tattoo, Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Education

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Sports, Music, Reading, Learning, Tv, Movies, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Games, Cooking, Gardening, Travel, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Cars, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Extreme Sports, Drinking, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Somewhere where we could hear each other

I've Always Wanted To Try

TBD

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Goal In Life Is

World Domination

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rap, Pop, Classical, Folk, Soul, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Instructional, Philosophy, Political, Romance

My Idea Of Fun Is

Is spontaneous day'cations

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Honesty, loyalty, Committed to communication, alpha-ish (not too huge of an asshole), confident, Affectionate, passionate, strong enough for me to take a break:), Self-starter

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Marriage, Committed