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csmamj
Winston Salem, North Carolina | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a self-starter, highly energetic, hardworking, and attractive woman. Most people say that I'm very good-looking, good hearted, and loyal. I have a tendency to see the glass as half-full and am generally optimistic. Because I normally believe that all will work out fine, I also tend to be a risk taker; hence, I left my job a few years ago and sold my house to start my own interior decorating company.
I am the mother of one biracial child and am very devoted to being an active parent and positive role model for her and her friends.
My most noticeable characteristics are my ability to communicate my feelings, to listen to the concerns of others, and to compromise when needed.
I'm looking for an attractive, self-secure, and emotionally mature man who knows what he is looking for and is able to communicate it honestly. He is between the ages of 40-50. If he is white, has had a long-term relationship with a black woman in the past. If he is black, he does not have negative opinions regarding interracial relationships.
As I am typically attracted to very confident men, he may still be dating around. However, he will be mature enough to know the difference between dating several women and playing games with several women. He knows that finding the right one is a long process for BOTH of us, so he woon't waste our time with lies, false pretenses, or generic 1970's pick up lines.
The most important thing I'm looking for is honesty. I do not expect to receive promises of forever; nor do I intend to make them unless it's mutually agreed upon. However, whether we're in a long term relationship or just hanging out, I will be treated with respect.
My matches are normally successful in their careers, but know the difference between what they do and who they are. They're also smart enough to know which one I'm interested in. Everything I've ever had I've provided for myself. And I let it all go to fund my business without loans or special assistance. So PLEASE hear me when I say you'll last much longer with me by describing the last book you read than by discussing how much money you make and spend.
I'm looking for a man who has been exposed to a self-supporting woman in the past, and be able to understand why growing my business is important to me regardless of how successful he may be.
My match MUST be secure in himself. While he may still have goals to obtain, he has total trust in himself and in his abilities to meet them. Therefore the women in his life are there to add value, not to validate his manhood.
My match knows that women are actually people. Because he appreciates me as an individual, he will take the time to make me feel special and unique, knowing that in return he will be treated like the king he is!
I am the mother of one biracial child and am very devoted to being an active parent and positive role model for her and her friends.
My most noticeable characteristics are my ability to communicate my feelings, to listen to the concerns of others, and to compromise when needed.
I'm looking for an attractive, self-secure, and emotionally mature man who knows what he is looking for and is able to communicate it honestly. He is between the ages of 40-50. If he is white, has had a long-term relationship with a black woman in the past. If he is black, he does not have negative opinions regarding interracial relationships.
As I am typically attracted to very confident men, he may still be dating around. However, he will be mature enough to know the difference between dating several women and playing games with several women. He knows that finding the right one is a long process for BOTH of us, so he woon't waste our time with lies, false pretenses, or generic 1970's pick up lines.
The most important thing I'm looking for is honesty. I do not expect to receive promises of forever; nor do I intend to make them unless it's mutually agreed upon. However, whether we're in a long term relationship or just hanging out, I will be treated with respect.
My matches are normally successful in their careers, but know the difference between what they do and who they are. They're also smart enough to know which one I'm interested in. Everything I've ever had I've provided for myself. And I let it all go to fund my business without loans or special assistance. So PLEASE hear me when I say you'll last much longer with me by describing the last book you read than by discussing how much money you make and spend.
I'm looking for a man who has been exposed to a self-supporting woman in the past, and be able to understand why growing my business is important to me regardless of how successful he may be.
My match MUST be secure in himself. While he may still have goals to obtain, he has total trust in himself and in his abilities to meet them. Therefore the women in his life are there to add value, not to validate his manhood.
My match knows that women are actually people. Because he appreciates me as an individual, he will take the time to make me feel special and unique, knowing that in return he will be treated like the king he is!
Sign
Aquarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
5' 3 (1.6 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Butt
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Interior Decorator
I Make This Much In A Year
$45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Socially
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Cool Dude
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Someplace where we could carry on a face-to-face conversation.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Writing a book
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
To make a success of my young business.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
swinging in the park, dining out, reading, and music
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness
What Do You Look For?
Integrity, ability to connect emotionally, communication skills
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed