OPEN-MINDED, KIND, SMART GUY FOR LTR

I Can Speak

English, French, Other

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm youthful, open-minded, enthusiastic, affectionate, down-to-earth, street- and book-smart, and health- and fitness-oriented. 5'11 and 170, I'm divorced and childless. Raised in Queens, I've been lucky to live as an adult in Nairobi, San Diego, Honolulu, DC, Dallas and Alabama. Living in all those places taught me a lot, widened my horizons, and made me more radical (in a good sense) (based on lots of facts I learned about the economic system we live under). I used to be a published poet and short story writer. Now I'm a beginning filmmaker. I haven't made it as a filmmaker yet, so I still work one kind of day job or other (presently I tutor writing privately). Economically I still live like a college or graduate student, working as little as possible to pay my rent and buy the bare essentials and spending most of my time working on my screenplays and on ways to produce my films. I enjoy hiking, the beach and beach walks (year-round), reading, the movies, progressive politics, alternative health, learning new things, and communicating and working on a relationship. And I'm open to trying whatever you like to do. Though I haven't always been ready for or appreciated them, I've had several great long-term relationships, and am looking for one more best friend/lover/companion/study partner to love and be loved by. I know how much work and negotiation/compromise a good relationship takes and I've gotten good at it. Why not meet me for coffee or a drink and a PRESSURE-FREE, GUARANTEED-PLEASANT chat. Hey, you never know!

I'd like to meet a non-materialistic, open-minded, kind woman who appreciates the arts and a guy who's fit, street- and book-smart, progressive, and pursuing his dream. I'm super supportive of a woman being all she can be, and think of a relationship as a mutual support team that makes us both happier, healthier, and more productive and successful.

Sign

Taurus

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Calves

Body Art

Scarred

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Entertainment / Media

My Job Title Is

Screenwriter-Director

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Social Behavior Is

Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Photography, Theater, Travel, Gardening, Camping, Playing Cards, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A walk along the Hudson River from Battery Park to Chambers Street at sunset. A walk along the ocean at Coney Island, Rockaway or Long Beach at sunset. A walk through Central Park. Tea/coffee and a pressure-free chat. I consider first meetings with someone you met online to be a pre-date--better kept short (45 mins/an hour) to reduce pressure and awkwardness and blind aspect of it.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Many things: Hiking in the Rockies (American or Canadian); biking or carring up/down the Nortern Pacific Coast (from Northern California through Oregan and Washington). Living on a 100% raw diet of green and other veggies, fruit, nuts, and seeds. Going to sleep and rising at the same time everyday (and sleeping as much as I needed) for a long period of time (maybe for the rest of my life). I've been privileged to live around the world as an adult and as such have been able to try and do a lot of cool stuff already.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure

My Religion Is

Atheist

My Political Views Are

Socialist

My Goal In Life Is

To become the happiest, healthiest and most well-loved person in the world. To become a great filmmaker whose films entertain and enlighten everyone in the world. To meet the last love of my life soon and to grow more and more in love with her with each passing year.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Reggae, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Auto-biography, Business, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Satire, Science, Sports, Technical, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

Sitting on an uncrowded beach listening to the crashing waves. Hiking. Biking. Camping. Visting pristine places in the world. Working out. Reading. Deep discussions. Visiting parts of the country/world I've never been. Reading in bed. Even more fun is doing all/most/some of the above with my sweetie!

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Open-mindedness. A desire to continue to learn till death. Kindness. Positivity. Playfulness. Emotional and intellectual intelligence. A sense of fairness. Someone who's comfortable sharing, and giving in order to get. A health and fitness orientation. A progressive/activist inclination.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Committed