seeking soulmate

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm ex-navy. Now that i've attained my degree, I work as a Case Manager. I've always tried to be the best father, brother, and son I could be. To try to describe who and what we are is often a difficult thing to do, but i'll try. A contradiction sometimes. I have modern ideas and views, but old fashioned values. Independent, however long for someone to depend on. Loving, loyal, protective, supportive. A great father to my son(at least thats what he tells me), and now grandfather. a gentleman always a quiet storm behind closed doors. I enjoy many different things, reading, traveling, making candlelight dinners(did I mention I was a chefs asst?) a fireplace, I am truly a romantic but I am also a realist as well. I believe in love at first sight and happily everafter but know the work involved as well. In order to attain a strong relationship it takes work, compromise, honesty, trust, communication a balance of give and take. Add the all important "Chemistry" and you have the "icing on the cake, " so to speak.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Student

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

Counselor

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Socially

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Family, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

almost anything

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

My Religion Is

Christian

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical, Jazz, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Fiction, Instructional, Mystery, Nature, Science, Science Fiction, Sports

My Idea Of Fun Is

wide and varied

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

My friends tell me I'm a good person to have as a friend. Loyalty, friendship, honor all these mean a great deal to me as a person and as a man these are the values that make us who we are I myself look foe those qualities in a woman. I hear so many of my female co-workers say there are no good men out there. Then tell me what a good person I am and I would like to think they are good judges of character. you can find theiceman0908 at the big Y.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Intimate, Committed