Looking for that special lady
james555
Greensboro, North Carolina | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
A man on a mission to find that special lady
I am a well educated professional black male. I have chosen not to post a picture, however, I do have pictures available and will gladly send them via email. If my lack of a picture causes you to be disinterested in any further quest for knowledge about me then I am sorry as it was just not meant to be. I can assure you, should you decide to pursue in getting to know more about me you will not be disappointed, as there is definitely "more to me".I am career and goal oriented, however, am not a workaholic. I believe in balance in my life. Vacations are a necessity, in particular cruises and visits to nice exotic places. I am strong willed yet compromising. I have old school values that dictates a man should treat a lady like the queen she is. The special lady in my life will be just that special. Anything that is special to you is cherished. If you can handle and appreciate a man who will be devoted to the relationship, cares only about that one woman in his life, and will treat you with the utmost of respect and dignity then send me a message and lets see if we connect.Please be mindful that I am not an idiot and will not allow myself to be taken for granted. Kindness and thoughtfulness should never be taken for granted.
I am looking for a lady who is assured of herself and knows what she wants in life. She should also know how to treat and appreciate her man. She believes in working together as two people who strive for success together can accomplish most anything. She is a compromising woman, knowing her man will want to please her and do what is necessary to make and keep her happy. She can speak her mind and when asked for her opinion and can provide an intelligent response. She will view her man as her best friend and can confide in him as he can confide in her. She is trustworthy and would never consider bringing harm to the relationship by pursuing an outside relationship. She is honest and can expect honesty in return. She can carry a conversation about different subjects and is not afraid to step outside her comfort zone for new and exciting experiences. She will allow me to also share the kitchen as I am a excellent cook and find it relaxing and fun. She is an active woman who believes in keeping her mind and body in shape. She can be herself at all times and is comfortable with who she is.
I have always found it interesting that there are still woman out there who get hung up on a person's height. ex. "If you are not at least 6' please do not respond" or a man must have other physical features. Read the profiles and you will notice most who post here are either divorced or separated which means something did not go right when that person was chosen. I challenge you not to be self limiting. Some physical attributes are important, however, it is the inner soul that counts. Do not let the physical prevent you from experiencing a wholesome and fruitful relationship. I am not saying this just for me but in general. We all sometimes get too hung up on the physical, thus preventing ourselves from getting to know someone who may actually be that knight in shinning armor or that lady of my dreams. If I have offended anyone then I apologize as that was not the intent of my comments. I just ask you, as I am doing is to have an open mind and get to know the person. Don't travel down that same road and get stung by the same kind of bee that stung you before. I wish you success in whatever your desires and goals are on this site.
I am a well educated professional black male. I have chosen not to post a picture, however, I do have pictures available and will gladly send them via email. If my lack of a picture causes you to be disinterested in any further quest for knowledge about me then I am sorry as it was just not meant to be. I can assure you, should you decide to pursue in getting to know more about me you will not be disappointed, as there is definitely "more to me".I am career and goal oriented, however, am not a workaholic. I believe in balance in my life. Vacations are a necessity, in particular cruises and visits to nice exotic places. I am strong willed yet compromising. I have old school values that dictates a man should treat a lady like the queen she is. The special lady in my life will be just that special. Anything that is special to you is cherished. If you can handle and appreciate a man who will be devoted to the relationship, cares only about that one woman in his life, and will treat you with the utmost of respect and dignity then send me a message and lets see if we connect.Please be mindful that I am not an idiot and will not allow myself to be taken for granted. Kindness and thoughtfulness should never be taken for granted.
I am looking for a lady who is assured of herself and knows what she wants in life. She should also know how to treat and appreciate her man. She believes in working together as two people who strive for success together can accomplish most anything. She is a compromising woman, knowing her man will want to please her and do what is necessary to make and keep her happy. She can speak her mind and when asked for her opinion and can provide an intelligent response. She will view her man as her best friend and can confide in him as he can confide in her. She is trustworthy and would never consider bringing harm to the relationship by pursuing an outside relationship. She is honest and can expect honesty in return. She can carry a conversation about different subjects and is not afraid to step outside her comfort zone for new and exciting experiences. She will allow me to also share the kitchen as I am a excellent cook and find it relaxing and fun. She is an active woman who believes in keeping her mind and body in shape. She can be herself at all times and is comfortable with who she is.
I have always found it interesting that there are still woman out there who get hung up on a person's height. ex. "If you are not at least 6' please do not respond" or a man must have other physical features. Read the profiles and you will notice most who post here are either divorced or separated which means something did not go right when that person was chosen. I challenge you not to be self limiting. Some physical attributes are important, however, it is the inner soul that counts. Do not let the physical prevent you from experiencing a wholesome and fruitful relationship. I am not saying this just for me but in general. We all sometimes get too hung up on the physical, thus preventing ourselves from getting to know someone who may actually be that knight in shinning armor or that lady of my dreams. If I have offended anyone then I apologize as that was not the intent of my comments. I just ask you, as I am doing is to have an open mind and get to know the person. Don't travel down that same road and get stung by the same kind of bee that stung you before. I wish you success in whatever your desires and goals are on this site.
Sign
Gemini
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Black
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Military
I Make This Much In A Year
More Than $150,000USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Reserved
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Computers, Cooking, Music, Photography
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Meeting for dinner or lunch to get to know a little about each other. In that atmosphere two people are able to have each other's undivided attention.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Gospel, Jazz, Latin, New age, Pop, Reggae
When I Read, I Always Read
Business, Computers, History, Instructional, News, Science, Technical
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed, Marriage