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janelle47
Lewisville, Texas | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a really bubbly person that would prefer to look on the bright side as long as there is one. Realism is something that I always strive for, since I tend to be a dreamer and strategist. While being optimistic and bubbly, I am still very forward and blunt. I didn't really realize this until I moved to a southern state. It's a curse and a gift. Cursed being that there are some people I do offend and they tend to keep their distance. Gifted being that a lot of people look to me for advice being that they trust that I will give an accurate and honest account of things without bias.
I really don't like drama and will bend over backwards to avoid it. This is to both my detriment and my happiness. It tends to cause me to ignore some things that may be important to me simply because I'd rather not cause any drama.
I have found that I like to be the center of attention, but I want to able to share all the limelight I receive with someone who can handle it as well. If I go to a party, my man should be able to go and make friends just as easily as I can, yet be just as happy watching me make a spectacle of myself. A perfect situation would be a group of us friends going out and my guy being able to go socialize and meet people, but love me enough to come check on me with a kiss and an arm around the waist every now and then.
I will warn any prospective match for me that I am very brazen and very blunt. I am terrible at beating around the bush. I have tried it and just ended up blurting out whatever I was intending to say anyway. This also leads me to need to talk about things. I can't just let things be if I can tell something's wrong. Tell me what's on your mind even if that means saying that you just want to be alone right now. I will always appreciate honesty over anything else.
I really don't like drama and will bend over backwards to avoid it. This is to both my detriment and my happiness. It tends to cause me to ignore some things that may be important to me simply because I'd rather not cause any drama.
I have found that I like to be the center of attention, but I want to able to share all the limelight I receive with someone who can handle it as well. If I go to a party, my man should be able to go and make friends just as easily as I can, yet be just as happy watching me make a spectacle of myself. A perfect situation would be a group of us friends going out and my guy being able to go socialize and meet people, but love me enough to come check on me with a kiss and an arm around the waist every now and then.
I will warn any prospective match for me that I am very brazen and very blunt. I am terrible at beating around the bush. I have tried it and just ended up blurting out whatever I was intending to say anyway. This also leads me to need to talk about things. I can't just let things be if I can tell something's wrong. Tell me what's on your mind even if that means saying that you just want to be alone right now. I will always appreciate honesty over anything else.
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Pisces
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American, Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Not Sure
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Education / Academic
My Job Title Is
Personal Trainer and Full-Time Student
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Often
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Boisterous, Loud, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Travel, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
My ideal first date would be doing something I have never done before with someone who has done it before and can teach me. Someone who knows the ins and outs and can handle teaching a skill or activity to somone who's never done it before. I would love an active and interactive date that promotes discussion and bringsout the personality in both parties :).
I've Always Wanted To Try
I've always wanted to try real rock climbing, the kind that you get out in nature on the rocks and get scraped up and bruised and love every minute of it. Also, spelunking sounds fascinating and I'd love to do that as well.
I'd love to go backpacking through a country that I don't know the language. I'd love to do this without a time table or set itinerary or even knowing where I was going to spend the night. Of course, I'd like to do this with someone special, whether it be my best friend or The One, haha.
I'd love to go backpacking through a country that I don't know the language. I'd love to do this without a time table or set itinerary or even knowing where I was going to spend the night. Of course, I'd like to do this with someone special, whether it be my best friend or The One, haha.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Perfect, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
I have 2 goals. One is that I would become an FBI or CIA agent. That one is in the even that I don't get married or have a plan to get married by the time I'm 24 or plan on or have children by the time I'm 27.
The other one is to own my own business and havethe time in my day to watch my children grow up and go on vacations and make every one of their dreams come true, or at least give them the chance to. I could never be a housewife, but I want to have complete control over my daily schedule. And I want to have enough money where I don't need to worry about anything. I don't necessarily want to be filthy rich, but where if I decide I'm sick of my car, I can just go out and buy another one.
The other one is to own my own business and havethe time in my day to watch my children grow up and go on vacations and make every one of their dreams come true, or at least give them the chance to. I could never be a housewife, but I want to have complete control over my daily schedule. And I want to have enough money where I don't need to worry about anything. I don't necessarily want to be filthy rich, but where if I decide I'm sick of my car, I can just go out and buy another one.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rap, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Comic, Fiction, Health, Humor, Mystery, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is
My idea of fun is doing something I have never done before with a few of my close friends. I love new experiences and doing something like rock climbing, spelunking, scuba dving, or bungee jumping with the 3 people closest to me in the world to me would be the most fun of all!
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
My man NEEDS to have amibition. Very important. I shouldn't have to puch and grunt and shove to get you to move up in life. I'm very competitive, so I want someone who wishes to accomplish a lot who can drive me to try to accomplish more than him.
Being fit is VERY important. I am a personal trainer and it's not just a hobby; it's a lifestyle I live. For example: A preferred vacation for us would be going spelunking or white water rafting or hiking or camping, or going to a surfing camp...you get what I mean. I'm always up and running around doing SOMETHING so I want my man to be able to enjoy those things with me.
I want someone who is not afraid to talk about his feelings for me, but must be honest. If I tell you I really like you and want to be with you, I don't want to hear, "Well, let's just see how it goes." I want to hear, "I really don't feel that way about you right now, but I love being with you..." or "Yeah, I really want to be with you, too." Honesty
Being fit is VERY important. I am a personal trainer and it's not just a hobby; it's a lifestyle I live. For example: A preferred vacation for us would be going spelunking or white water rafting or hiking or camping, or going to a surfing camp...you get what I mean. I'm always up and running around doing SOMETHING so I want my man to be able to enjoy those things with me.
I want someone who is not afraid to talk about his feelings for me, but must be honest. If I tell you I really like you and want to be with you, I don't want to hear, "Well, let's just see how it goes." I want to hear, "I really don't feel that way about you right now, but I love being with you..." or "Yeah, I really want to be with you, too." Honesty
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Committed