Ready to Start a New Chapter

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Looking for someone willing to let go and be spontaneous or chill and watch a movie. Take life seriously but be able to let the day go when we come together(unless you really need to get something off your chest, then I am more than happy to lend an ear). My kids are very important to me as I move into this new chapter of my life. I was a stay-at-home dad, but now I am working again so I love spending as much time with them as I can. However, I also know that I need some adult interaction in my life as well, so I am jumping back into the dating scene. I grew up a Mil-Brat, so I've lived both in the states and overseas (Spain, Italy, Okinawa, Japan), and visited many others. It was a great experience and I still like traveling. Can't wait til I'm in a position to do so. I guess, anything else you'd like to know, just ask.

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Hard Worker

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Kid(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Often

I Drink

Yes - Often

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Anti-social, Comedic, Dark, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved, Shy

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Cooking, Dining, Family, Games, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Sports, Theater, Travel, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Getting to know each other somewhere overlooking the water. Maybe having drinks/dinner at a marina, maybe I made us a picnic lunch/dinner to enjoy, maybe we're just sitting/walking at the beach. Or we could be landlocked somewhere. The point is the conversation. The questions, the thoughtful inflections, the awkward pauses, the nervous giggle, the hearty laugh, the looks, the smiles, the silence. Whatever it is, bring it.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To get to the place I truly want to be. To not have to worry about how to save money for that next adventure, trip, house, car or college education for my kids. It's slow in coming, but I know I'll get there, sooner rather than later!

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Dance, Electronic, Jazz, Reggae, Rock, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, Mystery, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

Truthfully?!? Reading and I mean real books. I can't really get in to ebooks. Like the feel of them in my hand, turning pages. Ok, enough of my nerdy side. I love hanging out with my kids, where ever we are. On the personal/private side, I like listening to the ocean or a running river. I find it interesting that water can be so calming and soothing, yet can be so destructive. Naturally I also like hanging out with friends or movie nights at home. I'm pretty much up for most things.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Truthfully, I don't know. Sure, there is usually some kind of initial spark which could range from me noticing your nice butt, your pretty smile or hearing your infectious laugh. However, I won't generally know whether that spark is worth pursuing until we actually talk, either through email or in person. Having divorced about 6 months ago, I'm at a stage in my life where my kids have most of my attention, but I do acknowledge that I do kind of miss the companionship and intimacy of a woman in my life. Not sure where I want go, but right now the journey is enough. So friends, maybe more, we'll see.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other