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I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

come see me at the heading above (smile). I'm 46 years old, two grown sons who are expecting children of their own and I was divorced 19 years ago. I have had long term relationships between then and now and I believe those situations were learning experiences for me to figure out who I am and what I need in my life from a significant other. I would love to be married again someday to someone who "gets me" I want a man in my life who I can grow with emotionally, mentally, physically, but I have also learned I don't necessarily "need" a man in my life. I am willing to be solo in this life if it means I have to settle to have someone. I'm a confident, Independent woman and have accomplished a lot on my own. Now I would like to accomplish things with someone by my side, share the journey, the trials the good times, the memories. I'm honest to a fault and expect the people in my life to be as well. "Doubts are more cruel than the worst of truths" If those in my life can't be honest - and live their life thru lies and dishonesty, they have no place in mine. Be real, genuine, honest and have integrity and we will get a long famously. I'm looking for a man who is secure, independent, yet knows how to be interdependent. I'm not controlling and don't want to be controlled. I don't play games and won't play yours. I love sports, I'm not one of those women who go shopping when the guys are watching the big game, I'll be right there in the middle with a beer in hand swapping stats with the rest of you. I love to laugh, a good sense of humor goes a long way. My friends would describe me as loyal, trustworthy, honest, goofy, smart, and fun to be around. I love to dance, I can also be a homebody, I love to entertain at home, cook a good meal and watch the game, a good movie or just socialize. I would love to travel more, I tend to prefer men who are fit and take care of themselves physically. I'm a personal trainer and fitness is a big deal in my life. I don't smoke or do drugs and am not interested in being around anyone who does. Money doesn't control me in the sense that what a man makes is important.
Ultimatley my motto's are simple: Be good to me and I will always be good to you, respect goes both ways, as does giving, loving and sharing. If you can't be honest, please don't waste my time. Be kind, faithful and considerate. Live your life with integrity. I strive to do and be all those things, I'm a work in progress, I'm not perfect and don't expect perfection, it doesn't exist. Relationships can be difficult and require hard work at times, if you aren't willing to do the work, don't waste my time (though I'm a firm believer that people make things harder than necessary). Communication is a must.. without it, what's the point.

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 3 (1.6 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Butt

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

LOGISTICS MANAGER

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Often

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Camping, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Something that would allow us to be able to talk and have conversation

I've Always Wanted To Try

I'll have to think about that one..

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

live life laughing as much as possible

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Rock, Pop, Blues, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Science Fiction, Sports

My Idea Of Fun Is

Dancing, working out, sports, anything out doors.. staying in, I'm easily entertained.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

A man who is confident with out being cocky, Good sense of humor, consistency, respect, great shoulders, a nice smile, fit, healthy.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Committed