I know what I want. Do you?

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Point #1 - I run a fetish website. Not porn, no nudity. It is also not related to anything illegal or "unacceptable". If you can't wrap your head around this, or if you have ANY sort of issue with it, just don't waste the time to message me. Please don't email me asking for the link; the reasons should be obvious.

Now that that's out of the way...

A lioness with a kitten's heart - that is the most succinct description of me.

Having the good fortune of a flexible schedule and a business I can run from my laptop/phone, I'm free to travel and be fairly spontaneous most of the time. Flight to London tomorrow? My passport is ready!

I think if I followed the same routines of most people who claim to "live life to the fullest", I would die of boredom. HAHA

Getting to the point:

I am direct, honest, an open book, sincere, serious, free-spirited, caring, confident and spontaneous, but also very loyal. I know exactly what I want and am a get up and go for it NOW type of person. I do not believe in wasting time on BS or indecision - either we make a choice and go for it or we waste our lives waiting on the "right time" that doesn't exist.

At the risk of sounding cliche, there is one man out there somewhere who is going to find himself ridiculously happy with me.

I do what I want in life; I am ambitious enough to get what I want but am also laid back and perfectly happy lying on a beach all day. I've always valued comfort but never cared much about "stuff" - it's just more crap to haul around. I can think of much better things to spend my money on than fancy shoes (even though I do love shoes and have plenty of high heels LOL).

I have worked hard and made many sacrifices to give myself the freedom I need to enjoy life while living comfortably. Most of my time is spent doing the things I want to do, with a little work thrown in to maintain my business. I basically have/do/get everything I want, but now I want that one man to build a partnership with. The single life is no longer of interest to me.

Some people spend their lives searching for perfection. Some people spend their lives making it for themselves. My grandparents taught me that if I only looked for it but never did anything to make it happen, I would spend my life looking and unsatisfied. They are smart and great people and I'm lucky to still have them around.

Some of the things I like to do: travel travel travel! Also enjoy reading, exploring, outdoor activities, dining out, dining in, watching live theater, watching the waves on a sandy beach, getting on a plane to anywhere at anytime, road trips. I have been in 40 US states, 2 territories and 12 other countries so far. Many of these places I've visited multiple times or lived in. The world is full of cool things to see and interesting people to meet, and I like finding them.

Last but not least, I love cats and SMALL dogs. No big dogs and NO PIT BULLS or other "aggressive" breeds.

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some University

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Business owner. See description.

I Make This Much In A Year

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Camping, Computers, Exercising, Internet, Reading, Theater, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Finding we click so much that we don't want it to end, making that day turn into 3 and building from there. haha

But seriously, dinner is usually a good place to start. If there's a spark we'll know what to do from there.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I pretty much do everything I want. One goal is to have a home on a certain island in the Bahamas (and yes I know which one).

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Goofy

My Religion Is

Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To live on the island, perhaps with a little vacation rental business. I love the island life and enjoy hosting travelers, especially the kind who would seek an off-the-beaten-path place like where I want to go. Wana partner with me?

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Classical, Dance, Electronic, Jazz, Latin, New age, Reggae, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Satire

My Idea Of Fun Is

Random and spontaneous - just think of something that sounds fun then get up and do it.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

The right man for me is open and honest, most importantly, and has the time and inclination to get out and explore and try new things. He is affectionate and lacking in emotional baggage, knows what he wants and goes for it sooner rather than later. He is ambitious but able to chill. He likes getting outside and maybe getting dirty sometimes, AND getting dressed up for a night out sometimes too. He isn't still trying to bang every chic in town or constantly looking for the next best thing. He doesn't need his ego stroked and wants to build a life with a strong woman. He is fit and takes pride in his appearance. He is open to the possibility of having a kid or two, but won't die of depression if that doesn't work out. He is not afraid to try.

Is that you? Are you also able to recognize what you want when it's right in front of you, then do what it takes to make it yours without waiting around thinking you might still find something better or fearing failure? Are you willing to take a risk on one good woman without having to spend eons playing the "get to know you" game? Do you appreciate a strong confident woman who knows exactly what she wants? If the answers to these questions are definitely yes, then stop wasting time and get in touch with me ;-)

We can spend our lives looking for the perfect person or we can spend our lives building perfection with a good person. Which do you want to do?

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Marriage