Can You Love Me Even When Your Mad?
soulseeking
Clayton, North Carolina | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
Being single again is an opportunity to get it right this time. I have learned a lot about myself in this time of self discovery. One of the main reasons why I have not been able to find my forever in anyone is because I wanted it to bad. I was married and got married after knowing my ex wife for 6 months. I last relationship I knew my ex girlfriend for 6 months before I moved to here from Tennessee. So you see there's a pattern here. I really need to take my time and get to know someone before doing anything. I have also learned that I need to become a better communicator. Sometimes I don't say what's on my mind and that lets small things grow into huge things. But the most important thing that I have is that I have to make every effort to resolve problems quickly and calmly. All of these things will give me a better shot at making a relationship work. I still think I was unlucky in love but the truth is it was not the people I was dating that had the problem. The common denominator in every relationship was me me. I was the problem. With a few exceptions. My ex girlfriend cheated on me in my own bed. That is a huge exception. I do realize that some of the arguments and my inability to accept some of the core components of her personality might have push it in that direction it does not excuse her for doing it. And honesty I could have forgave her for the cheating part but doing it in my home and the emotional attachment that she had with this very young gentleman could not be forgiven. The what I am looking for a question that is not as simple as it seems. Who has the time and energy to honestly answer this question. So I'll just keep it simple. I want someone that is honest, has a job, that is responsible, that knows how to communicate, that is willing to work with me to make this relationship work, someone that is patient and realizes that it takes time to get to know each other. No more moving in after a short time. And most of all, SOME THAT CAN LOVE ME EVEN WHEN THEY ARE MADE AT ME. SOMEONE THAT CAN CARE FOR ME EVEN WHEN THEY ARE UPSET WITH ME. I can explain this statement later.
Sign
Aries
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Black
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Arms
My Hair Is
Bald
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is
Nework Ops
I Make This Much In A Year
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Comedic, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Exercising, Movies, Music, Sports
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Clubbing / Bars, Going To A Concert, Partying, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
I ideal first date for me is anything that lets me get to know you. It should allow us to talk.
I've Always Wanted To Try
DO you really want to go here? I just met you. lol.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Month
My Political Views Are
Democrat
My Kind Of Humor Is
Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Movies, Sports, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Romance, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Dance, Pop, Rap, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
I Don't Like Reading
My Idea Of Fun Is
My ideal of fun is doing what feels right.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Spontaneity, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
I just want to be happy with someone forever.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Intimate, Marriage, Committed