Poz, undetectable,healthy, masc. bottom

Je sais parler

Anglais

Je me décrirais comme

Younger looking 58 year old gay guy, MASCULINE BOTTOM. HIV+, UNDETECTABLE, HEALTHY, EMPLOYED Nurse and most of all HAPPY. Important things you need to know, but there's more to me then that. I'm a little shy but not a total introvert and can express my opinions gently. Learning my way around the gym-don't have a gym body, but not overweight-currently achieving one hour on the stationary bike and stretching out my back afterwards(recently lost 40 pounds). Love to walk. Really want to tone it up. I consider myself a hard working average Joe,easy going, lay back and quiet kind of guy-- but I'm also passionate. My favorite colors are yellow, purple, red, brown and gray. I love the sounds of the beach and the wind and the smell of lavender. I have a soft spot in my heart for people are waiters-waitresses, nurses, first responders, military people, law enforcement and teachers(such challenging jobs). Speaking of jobs, I am a nurse in a busy,fast paced,chameleon Cardiac Cath Lab-meaning that I'm part of a team that is present to keep a patient safe and comfortable while the doctor is placing a stent inside a patient's blocked heart artery(s). I'm out(not in your face) and proud at my job. I'm a masculine Bottom. Love, love hand holding,romance and being romanced, being into you and being into us. I'm a great kisser,affectionate,into monagamy big time,not afraid of intimacy and very loyal. I'm a very light social drinker. Interests include:Great singers(Streisand, Sarah Vaughn, Karen Carpenter,Jessay Norman, Joan Sutherland, Luther Vandross, Ella-just to name a few). Architecture(Frank Lloyd Wright, Richard Nuetra, mid-century, craftsman styles and grand old cathedrals-especially in Europe). Love classical organ music, music in general, opera, theater(love Hamilton, Wicked and Phantom of the Opera)., T.V.(favorites are the original Law and Order, Big Bang Theory, classic T.V.). Films(current, classics and foreign.,TCM fan). You are a man(race open-I'm an equal opportunity type of man lover) who can accept the issue of me being a healthy HIV undetectable(or who is in the same situation as I am) as indicated per my profile title. You must be a TOP(I'm a masculine bottom) and a great kisser(essential) with some or all of the same interest,qualities and have a great outlook on life. I am looking for a man who has the ego to embrace monogamy, romantic and old-fashioned. A man who is not afraid to be affectionate. Someone who believes in open and honest communication and can do so in an constructive way without being rude. Someone who is also not afraid to cry and not afraid of intimacy. My basic philosophy on relationships is that everyone is broken inside and not perfect. We work around or with those imperfections or do some homework and change if those imperfections are impactful. Communication is key rather it's positive or constructive criticism. Emotionally, I will show up and step up to the plate. When I'm wrong(remember, we are not perfect), it's easy for me to say "I'm wrong" and "I'm sorry". Born in New Orleans. Grew up in L.A.(father and sister live in L.A. and I visit there frequently). Willing to date someone who lives in L.A. or Palm Springs. San Diego resident since 1992. Thanks for reading my profile. My photos are recent(yours should be too-don't mind seeing how you look now) and labeled with dates. Pictures without sunglasses look better. Take care and be well! NO DRUGS!!

Signe

Balance

Ma silhouette est

Normale

Ma taille est

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Mes yeux sont

Marrons

Mon origine ethnique est

Afro-Américaine

Ma situation maritale est

Célibataire

J'ai des enfants

Non

Mes cheveux sont

Chauve

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Pas d'animaux

Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs

Oui

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Diplôme universitaire

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Plein-temps

Mon domaine de compétence est

Médical / Santé

Mon titre de fonction est

Registered Nurse

Je vis

Seul/e

Chez moi

C'est plutôt calme

Je fume

Non

Je bois de l'alcool

Oui - socialement

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Calme

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Réservé, Timide, Observateur, Sympa

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Dîner , Faire de l'exercice, Musique, Télévision, Films, Théâtre, Voitures

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Aller à un concert

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

A relaxing quiet cafe or restaurant where we can hear each other and allow us to be ourselves and or be nervous. Maybe we can walk around the area afterwards.

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, La personne qu'ils aimeraient être, Cool

Ma religion c'est

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

Mon but dans la vie c'est

Maintain health and happiness.

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Intelligent, Sympa

A la télévision, je regarde

Actualités, Documentaires, Drames, Sitcoms, Films, Sports, Rediffusions

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires, Famille

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Pop, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Soul

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Actualités, Santé, Programmes instructifs, Œuvres de référence

Mon idée du fun

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Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Sensibilité, Empathie, Délicatesse

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Relation intime, Engagement, Mariage