Are you the one...am I...lets find out
tokmota
Oakland, California | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
Who me?? Well I am always on run, enjoy spending time with my family (especially my 15 year old daughter), and love to be outdoors--strolling down the beach, camping or going to the farmers market on a sunny Saturday morning picking out fresh ingredients for a romantic dinner at home followed by dessert at a favorite restaurant. Fair warning to readers of this painful exercise in trying to not sound like the last 5 profiles you read ;) I am a political junkie and very interested in world affairs, so if you are not or are uninformed about the world around you, I am going to drive you nuts or bore you to death so save us both and find someone who is a better fit.
I am looking first and foremost for someone I can be the best of friends with that I can trust with my inner most thoughts, emotions and desires even when not hummm how to put it well...the same as the 'normal' people. I am looking for the, so far elusive man that understands that as an independent, strong and well educated woman I am equal in every way to my man, but that does not mean I am the same as a man. I believe men should be able to make a decision and plan an evening or weekend together, be gracious and a gentleman...chivalry is not dead! No really it isn't, I swear :) I want a man that goes out of his way to make sure I know he loves and cherishes me, as am excited to make him feel the same way. Most important is a man that does not fall into the pattern that relationships are all drama all the time and that understands honest communication of feelings and a willingness to work at making a relationship what you want it to be is important to its success or failure.
I want someone to begin the next phase of life with after my daughter is off to college and I have completed college. Someone to explore ourselves, the potential depth of our love and the world with...
I am looking first and foremost for someone I can be the best of friends with that I can trust with my inner most thoughts, emotions and desires even when not hummm how to put it well...the same as the 'normal' people. I am looking for the, so far elusive man that understands that as an independent, strong and well educated woman I am equal in every way to my man, but that does not mean I am the same as a man. I believe men should be able to make a decision and plan an evening or weekend together, be gracious and a gentleman...chivalry is not dead! No really it isn't, I swear :) I want a man that goes out of his way to make sure I know he loves and cherishes me, as am excited to make him feel the same way. Most important is a man that does not fall into the pattern that relationships are all drama all the time and that understands honest communication of feelings and a willingness to work at making a relationship what you want it to be is important to its success or failure.
I want someone to begin the next phase of life with after my daughter is off to college and I have completed college. Someone to explore ourselves, the potential depth of our love and the world with...
Sign
Pisces
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are
Green
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
No
Body Art
Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Auburn / Red
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat, Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Medical / Health
My Job Title Is
Certified Massage Therapist
I Live
Alone, With Kid(s), With Pet(s)
I'm A Smoker
Yes - But Non Tobacco
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Gambling, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Raunchy
Views
My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To save the world!!
My Kind Of Humor Is
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Dramas, Reality Shows, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
I Don't Like Movies
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Pop, New age, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Auto-biography, Business, History, Political
My Idea Of Fun Is
It depends on my mood at the moment...one day may want to go out for a romantic dinner somewhere quiet where we can talk and look into each others eyes over cocktails and good food...another time maybe our time is spent playing on the beach or hiking to somewhere beautiful that you want to share with me...perhaps we can get all dressed up on a trip to the casino and hit the craps table...or head out on a trip to somewhere in our country or on the other-side of the world in noble attempt to make it a better place...or maybe we will just lay around in our birthday suits watching TV all day...whatever it is I am just happy to be doing it with someone like you.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate